How do I remain MOTIVATED when I look to my spouse for some push but he is laid back? We are both believers’. Col 3 23, Philipians 2 13. First of all, our walk with the Lord is individual. Even when our spouse inspire and motivate us, we have to recognise that the ultimate source of that inspiration and motivation is God. David encouraged himself in the Lord, when circumstances were not very encouraging. I would recommend the Word and prayer. As you consistently invest time in the Word and you consistently pray in tongues daily, the motivation you need will become apparent as the Spirit gets more opportunity to express Himself through you.