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  • June 2020: MoThaRs & Boaz (Combined)

     Oke updated 3 years, 8 months ago 44 Members · 147 Posts
  • admin

    Administrator
    June 14, 2020 at 9:55 am
  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:40 pm

    Hello everyone

    • Steve

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:43 pm

      Hello Pastor

    • PastorChuks

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

      Good evening once again Pastor.

    • Felicia Samuel

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:49 pm

      Good evening Pastor

    • PastorCassy

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:49 pm

      Good evening Pastor

    • Greg

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Good evening Pastor.

    • CHIMA NWUZI

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Good evening Pastor.

      The presentation by Dr Adie was quite refreshing.

    • Promise.

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:34 pm

      Good evening Pastor

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:40 pm

    That was a great message from Adie Okari. Thank you Brother Adie

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:42 pm

      Yes indeed Pastor. Very refreshing

      • Uncle-Ike

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 5:43 pm

        Thank you once again Bro Adie

    • Desmondfaafa

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

      Good evening pastor.

      Indeed a resounding refresher course. Quite uplifting and timely.

      • Nkechinyere

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

        Aptly put Bro Faafaa. A real refresher course

    • PastorChuks

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

      Very refreshing and a great reminder.

    • PastorEsther

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:47 pm

      Yes indeed Pastor. Thank you Bro Adie

    • Iyowuna

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Refreshing word. Thank you Boaz

  • PastorSola

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:41 pm

    Very refreshing Word. Practical truths powerfully presented. Thanks Bro. Adie.

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  PastorSola.
    • Theo

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:43 pm

      It was very refreshing and impactful

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:55 pm

      Yes Pastor. Good marriages don’t just happen it’s a pack of deliberate intentions on display. Thank God for His refreshing Word to us.

      • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  Oke.
  • Ubong

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:42 pm

    Hello Pastor

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:43 pm

    Please post your questions here and the panel is available to answer

  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:43 pm

    Good evening Everyone and welcome to the Q&A session. This is where the rubber hits the road…

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

      This investment of time, words and money is a very interesting and sweet ‘sontin’

      • Uncle-Ike

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

        That was INI

        • Nkechinyere

          Moderator
          June 14, 2020 at 5:47 pm

          The two shall become one oh

          • Uncle-Ike

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 5:50 pm

            Yes o Pastor – one indeed o.

            Ini is right here

          • Theo

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

            At what point can the two not become one?

          • Theo

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:01 pm

            Is it possible that even when the two become one, both are not one? What is that that makes them one?

      • Uzezi Ebulu-Orobogha

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

        True talk o

      • Timi Igbiapu

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 5:56 pm

        After all the investment and it’s still not working…what next

  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:44 pm

    Please click on the “reply” button at the top right to type your comment or question

    • Timi Igbiapu

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:51 pm

      After investing…. everything and it’s still not working….what next?

      • Oke

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:02 pm

        Like we heard from the speaker it take 2 people looking up to God for it work. Are you both relating on same level – spirt, soul & body? What have you invested? Are making the right investment? How are you making the investing?

    • Desmondfaafa

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Thanks very specially Dr Adie for this refreshing, timely and bonding revelations of truth needed in every home.

    • Enekole

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:55 pm

      Good evening Pastor. Good evening everyone. Thank you Dr Adie for an awesome message. Please can you throw some more light on the multiplier effect of marriage. Thank you

  • Murtala Adams

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

    Refreshing words indeed. Thank you bro Adie

  • Irene Arthur-Benison

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

    Thank God we didn’t miss it…

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:07 pm

      You can say that again. Its expedient for us not to miss any service because every service is designed for different areas of our lives. Imagine what we have learnt today focusing on a healthy me and a healthy marriage. We are blessed and highly favoured.

  • NnaebukaofElyon

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:45 pm

    Thank you Dr

  • Gloria Tamuno

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    It was indeed a refreshing session for the short time we were logged on

  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    Thank you Bro Adie for a wonderful teaching

  • Gloria Akintoye

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    Hello Man of God. Greetings family

  • MichaelAlaohuru

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    Good evening family. This is very refreshing

  • Maudlyn

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:46 pm

    It was an eye opener. Thank you Sir for the word.

  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:47 pm

    Can I ask any one to offer your top 3 takeaways from the message?

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:49 pm

      I certain can – We must invest for our marriages to work.

    • Maudlyn

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:50 pm

      My take away would be

      Investing words in my marriage. Instead of nagging and complaining, I should invest words that uplift my spouse.

      • NnaebukaofElyon

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 5:53 pm

        Very true. Positive words build, while negative ones tear down

    • PastorSola

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:50 pm

      Another one – The place of our words is important.

    • Grace Obomanu

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      1. There is a multiplier effect in a marriage union.

      2. Wife RESPECT your husband. ?

      3. Husbands love your wife UNCONDITIONALLY.

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

      Marriage is a covenant

      Better marriage = Better life

      Invest time, words and money into your marriage and reap the benefits

    • Stanley.ESA

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

      Spending Time with your spouse studying the word and in prayers.

    • PastorChuks

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

      Mariage is a covenant not a contract.

      There are priorities in marriage (For the husband , it’s to provide for the family and for the wife, it’s to manage the home)

      Three important investments in your marriage; Quality time, kind words and your resources/money

    • Iyowuna

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

      I need to make huge investments in my marriage. The investments I make is dependent on the harvest or outcome I desire.

    • CHIMA NWUZI

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      1. The closer we draw towards God, the closer we draw to our spouses.

      2. We must love unconditionally as Christ loves the church.

      3. We must invest time (quality and quantity), words and money for our marriages to work.

    • Uzezi Ebulu-Orobogha

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      Investment of words in marriage.

      Investment of time

      Investment of money

    • MichaelAlaohuru

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:08 pm

      1. Put God first

      2. Love my wife unconditionally

      3. Let God’s word have final say in my marriage

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:10 pm

      My take away – I must be deliberate in investing in my marriage relationship.

    • Theo

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:23 pm

      Loving our wives is not negotiable. It is fundamental

  • Chidinma1

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:47 pm

    Good Evening Pastor. Thank You Dr Adie for the teaching.

  • Gloria Akintoye

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:49 pm

    Great Job Bro Adie

  • Frank Aigbavboa

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:51 pm

    Good evening Pastor. Managing your TIME, WORDS & MONEY encapsulated everything. Great meeting brother Adie

  • Pastortayo

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:51 pm

    Thanks once again Dr. Adie

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  Pastortayo.
  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:51 pm

    With the lockdown and Covid 19, we have been forced to stay and work from home. An interesting time indeed. Can someone share how “words” have helped build the marriage relationship during this time?

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      we dug deeper into the word of God and of course washing each other with the same word, we are getting better. Ini even just remarked that even the relationship with our children is deeper

      • Nkechinyere

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 5:59 pm

        That is awesome

      • Emeka Ene

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

        Great! I experienced some stress adjusting to the different routine and WFH had no closing time, so it was “normal” to shut down from the work day at mid night. Not good for the relationship. We have since recognized the challenges and working towards a more balanced time. Call it being intentional about your relationship.

        Thanks for sharing

    • MichaelAlaohuru

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:15 pm

      This period, we read Christian books together, discuss on them. It’s been quite interesting because we have more time to talk.

  • Oke

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

    How do I remain focused when my spouse is laid back? We are both believers

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

      The perception of laid-back may be the starting point. Understanding that we are both different is the beginning

      • NnaebukaofElyon

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

        Nice perception. Wen we try to see the uniqueness in our partner you may just realize they got lot to offer. I have learnt to see my wife sweetie view about things from her own perspective

      • Maudlyn

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:04 pm

        How do I remain MOTIVATED when I look to my spouse for some push but he is laid back? We are both believers

        • Nkechinyere

          Moderator
          June 14, 2020 at 6:16 pm

          Just saw this. You have to look to HIM not him for your motivation . Simple but true..

          • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  Nkechinyere.
          • auntiepatience

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:39 pm

            Yes! Look to HIM. It’s frustrating when the focus leaves HIM to him. Personal experience. Thank you dearest Pastor Kech

      • Oke

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:27 pm

        Laid-back means not taking initiative and playing the victim when faced with situation that demand his input.

  • Chioma Michael

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

    Thank you Pastor. Thank you Mr Adie for this awesome teaching.

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:52 pm

    Being reminded that the Word is a prescription was also major for me. When a doctor gives a prescription you take it regardless of how you feel. You take it because you believe you will feel better afterwards.

    • Maudlyn

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      Spot on Pastor!

    • Iyowuna

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:04 pm

      Yes Pastor. We take it even when it is bitter like Chloroquine

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:17 pm

      Hmmmm Like a prescription the first dose may not clear it all. It’s simple, we need the third man in it, he Holy spirit to help us trust and wait to see the result. Thank Pastor for this view.

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:53 pm

    We must believe the WORD for our marriages

    • Emeka Ene

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:56 pm

      What words – give some examples brethren 🙂

      • Oke

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:40 pm

        For me what I have practiced over the years is words of affirmation which I confess over my marriage and both of us. These word are based on God’s Word.

    • MichaelAlaohuru

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

      Exactly Pastor.

  • Irene Arthur-Benison

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:53 pm

    Good evening Pastor. Thank you Bro. Adie for this wonderful course. Please, is there a way this video can be rewatched or downloaded.

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:56 pm

      I guess it should be available in the Audio Media Store

  • Ifeanyi Ezechukwukere

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

    Good evening family. That was a refreshing time in God’s presence. Thank you Bro Adie.

  • Emeka Ene

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

    Practical: Your spouse is on facebook or Wharsapp and you need help to bring down a pot from the store. What “Words” can you use to get him or her to move?

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 5:57 pm

      Darling, honey pot, can you help me get this pot?

      • Emeka Ene

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 5:59 pm

        Ooooh my darling, for you I’ll go to the end of the earth. Pot? small thing!! Whatapp please step aside!!

        • PastorChuks

          Member
          June 14, 2020 at 6:14 pm

          Hahaha hmm

    • Ubong

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 5:59 pm

      You act as if you did not notice he/she was on social media then call out, honey are you busy? Can you help? I need some help with the pot.

      • Nkechinyere

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 6:01 pm

        What if he/she acts like they didn’t hear you?

        • Ubong

          Member
          June 14, 2020 at 6:08 pm

          I would call out again and ask, did you hear me? After that I would ask one of the children to help pass the message.

        • Uncle-Ike

          Member
          June 14, 2020 at 6:09 pm

          Hmmmmm…… mood change

          Sweetie m, please I need your help o (Ini, voice raised)

        • CHIMA NWUZI

          Member
          June 14, 2020 at 6:11 pm

          You repeat it once again and remind him the special meal you plan to prepare with the pot?

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:02 pm

      Di m oma, bia remove pot from stove

    • PastorEsther

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

      Honey, can you give me a hand, please. I would appreciate it greatly. Generally, ignore Facebook even if you don’t like it. Just focus on the help you need at the time.

      • Oke

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:44 pm

        This is good for me

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

      Na Ini speak am o

      • Emeka Ene

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 6:06 pm

        What about offering or describing the soup that will emanate from that pot when done?

        • Emeka Ene

          Moderator
          June 14, 2020 at 6:08 pm

          Ok. let us elevate the conversation. What will you do if after the nice words, he still ignores you and you are left struggling with the heavy pot? Kindly describe your next move?

          • Uncle-Ike

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:13 pm

            Hmmm… this one don dey tough o

          • Nneka

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:14 pm

            I will just sweetly yell out….’Honeyyyyy, your dinner is threatennnnned!

            That should get his attention LOL!

          • Oke

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:45 pm

            Oh my

          • Uncle-Ike

            Member
            June 14, 2020 at 6:17 pm

            Hewwu….. so this Ofe onubu I just spent money, time and effort to prepare will just go like that. Kia kia the work is done. He loves bitter leaf soup (Ini)

    • Pastortayo

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:11 pm

      This is a very simple request to make in my home. Just say ” Darl! The soup on fire is burning” Spence will leave whatever {Facebook, WhatsApp) and race to the kitchen. Anything for Garri and soup! Then you simply ask him to help you with the pot.

      • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  Pastortayo.
      • Uncle-Ike

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:14 pm

        lol

      • Nkechinyere

        Moderator
        June 14, 2020 at 6:15 pm

        You eh? ?

      • NnaebukaofElyon

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:17 pm

        So he runs to save the burning soup and meets a request for a pot?

        • Nkechinyere

          Moderator
          June 14, 2020 at 6:20 pm

          Hopefully he has a sense of humour

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:20 pm

      The best would be to ask politely “pls I need some help over” but if being on social media has been a major distraction the words may not come out like that.

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:25 pm

      It will a renewed mature mind not to nag out in such a situation, for some “I need some help” will cut while others a firmed tone or bit of urgency will do it.

  • Camassoma

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:54 pm

    TThank you Dr Adie. Many blessings.

  • MSA

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:55 pm

    Thank you Dr Akari

  • Chibuisi

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 5:56 pm

    Very refreshing and insightful – Vickie

  • Danjuma Aliyu

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:02 pm

    Thanks, Dr Adie! Very refreshing, particularly in the light of the garbage that the devil is vomiting upon the world now.

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 6:02 pm

    I notice I have to refresh my page often to see new comments. We will work on that

    • MSA

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:08 pm

      Yes Pastor. I had the same experience

    • MichaelAlaohuru

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:18 pm

      Also indicators for new comments from admin.

  • IyornagbeAitafo

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:03 pm

    We must cultivate right words, prayers and love in our marriage.

  • Gloria Akintoye

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:04 pm

    I have come to finally accept that every marriage relationship is unique… what works for one may not work for another. The normalizing factor is the WORD

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 6:08 pm

      UNIQUE is the word

    • PastorEsther

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:11 pm

      True talk Sis Glo

  • Yemisi Awotoye

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:06 pm

    Good evening everyone. Thank you my e-pastor for having me here.

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 6:06 pm

      Welcome Yemisi. Lovely having you here

  • Danjuma Aliyu

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:07 pm

    Practical: Your spouse is on facebook or Wharsapp and you need help to bring down a pot from the store. What “Words” can you use to get him or her to move? Sweet heart, I need your help; please help me bring down a pot from the store. Thanks.

  • IyornagbeAitafo

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:09 pm

    We should know that our spouse was the object for which Jesus was sacrificed. No greater love than this that a man should lay down his life for another.

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 6:11 pm

    Thank you so so much MoThaRs and Boazes for your being here and for your engagements. The relaxed signature of our Greenville meetings was felt here online. Love you all and this is going to be an exciting platform to reach many marriages beyond TCC Greenville. We will end the meeting now to prepare for the SIngles at 6:30pm.

    • Emeka Ene

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 6:13 pm

      Thank you Pastor. Have a nice evening everyone

      God Bless

      • Pastortayo

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:17 pm

        Thank you Pastor and everyone. Enjoy the rest of your evening.

    • PastorSola

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 6:16 pm

      Thank you, Pastor.

      This was a great meeting and a good beginning.

      Everyone, have a blessed evening and a lovely week ahead.

      • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by  PastorSola.
      • PastorChuks

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:23 pm

        Thank you Pastor.

        What a refreshing time with many silent lessons.

        Good night everyone.

    • Nneka

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:16 pm

      Thank you Pastor

    • Uncle-Ike

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:19 pm

      Thank you so much Pastor. Good night

    • MichaelAlaohuru

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:20 pm

      Thank you Pastor.

    • PastorEsther

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:21 pm

      Thank you, Pastor.

    • Oke

      Member
      June 14, 2020 at 6:55 pm

      Its so beautiful. Thank you Pastor. Lovely ahead

  • Danjuma Aliyu

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:13 pm

    Thank you Pastor (and all the Staff Partners and Volunteers) that made this online experience possible!

  • Chimenem Iroanwusi

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:15 pm

    Thank you Pastor. Refreshing time in the word.

  • Nkechinyere

    Moderator
    June 14, 2020 at 6:18 pm

    You are welcome to stay and chat for as long as you want. It is an old TCC practice called “fellowship after fellowship” right from REC days. I believe these comments will be here online

  • Theo

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:30 pm

    Okestic that your question about laid back husband tell them ooo is not me ooo

    • Nkechinyere

      Moderator
      June 14, 2020 at 6:38 pm

      Even monkey no say no be you…..laid back ke?

      • Theo

        Member
        June 14, 2020 at 6:53 pm

        Pastor Correct 2 points

  • Danjuma Aliyu

    Member
    June 14, 2020 at 6:32 pm

    How do I remain MOTIVATED when I look to my spouse for some push but he is laid back? We are both believers’. Col 3 23, Philipians 2 13. First of all, our walk with the Lord is individual. Even when our spouse inspire and motivate us, we have to recognise that the ultimate source of that inspiration and motivation is God. David encouraged himself in the Lord, when circumstances were not very encouraging. I would recommend the Word and prayer. As you consistently invest time in the Word and you consistently pray in tongues daily, the motivation you need will become apparent as the Spirit gets more opportunity to express Himself through you.

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